Monthly Archives: August 2014

Victim or Survivor?

Two articles by Natalie Himmelrich on Still Standing resonated with me: “How Do You Define Yourself After Loss?” and “Having Lost and Being Lost.” Go on, I’ll wait while you give them a read. They’re very short.  Okay, you’re busy? Here’s what … Continue reading

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This time last year

Today is the first day that I can definitively say: this time last year, I was pregnant. We had IUI on August 2nd and 3rd, so while I might not *quite* have been pregnant on the 4th, that seems like … Continue reading

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Ander’s memorial service

We have been saying since Ander died that his memorial service would take place in the summer, at K’s parents’ house on the lake, where we got married. It would be for family primarily, although local friends would be invited … Continue reading

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