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Donating is an act of love
I had a two month supply of breast milk after Ander died, one for the month he was in the hospital and one for the month it took me to wean afterwards. Stopping pumping was excruciating. On one hand, I … Continue reading
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Tagged #breast milk, #breastfeeding, #milk, #milk bank, #milkshare, #NICU, #preemie, #premature
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Bad omens
As I mentioned a few days ago, I associate seeing robins with my son coming to say hello. So what does it mean that on my walk yesterday, I saw a dead robin on the side of the road? It … Continue reading
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Tagged #apatosaurus, #bad omen, #brontosaurus, #dinosaur, #NICU, #omen, #robin
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In gratitude for good moderators
Since last June, I have been following a post on Glow in the Woods asking for success stories for pregnancies post-placental abruption. I keep hoping there will be a story like mine, and then a success (no luck yet). I’m hoping … Continue reading
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Tagged #baby, #babyloss, #glow in the woods, #NICU, #placental abruption, #preemie, #prematurity
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To do and not to do
In light of yesterday’s post, I was pleased to see Still Standing Magazine’s article for today: “The Complete List of Do’s and Don’ts When Supporting the Bereaved.” I agree with pretty much everything, except that “encourage and give them hope” … Continue reading
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Tagged #abruption, #babyloss, #despair, #encouragement, #hope, #NICU, #odds, #placenta, #worry
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Mothers helping mothers
By the time Ander died, I had been pumping milk for 26 days and nights. The NICU stored it for me in their giant freezers, for my baby, who would never get past cotton swabs and 1 ml drips. Fortunately, … Continue reading
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Tagged #babyloss, #breastfeeding, #donor, #milk, #mother, #NICU, #preemie, #thanks, #twins
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Supermoon
Last night, I inadvertently did challenge #1 and #2. So, #2 = Watch the moonrise. “It takes some planning,” cautions Elizabeth Dias, who wrote the Times article. “The moon appears on its own schedule.” That’s true, for sure. We went … Continue reading
Ander’s memorial service
We have been saying since Ander died that his memorial service would take place in the summer, at K’s parents’ house on the lake, where we got married. It would be for family primarily, although local friends would be invited … Continue reading
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Tagged #baby, #funeral, #lake, #lavendar #hats, #loss, #luminaries, #memorial, #NICU
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